. It certainly has an emotional toll. D.C., in a complicated family, she attended Harvard, where she met her husband. To say that the last year has been one of breaking, of brokennessbroken systems, broken lives, broken promiseswould be an understatement. And you had not been in the habit of crying through a lot of really tough things in your life. DAVIES: You describe an incident in which a patient was brought in - I guess was handcuffed to a chair, and there were four police officers there who said he swallowed a bag of drugs, and they wanted him treated, I guess, you know, the stomach pumped or whatever. So it did open me up to that realization. Michele Thomas, MD, is board certified in colon and rectal surgery . And then there's the transparent shield. This happens all the time, where prisoners are brought in, and we do what the police tell us to do. What was it like getting acclimated to that community and the effect it had on the patients that you saw? I mean, was it difficult? So for me, school - and I went to National Cathedral School. DAVIES: Let me reintroduce you. . You know, ER doctors and nurses have a lot of dealings with police, and there's a lot of talk about reforming police these days, you know, defunding police in the wake of protests of police killings of African Americans. Brought up in Washington, D.C., in a complicated family, she went to Harvard, where she met her husband. This final, fourth installment of the United We Read series delves into books from Oregon to Wyoming. Also, if you think your job is stressful, take a walk in this authors white coat. During our first virtual event of 2021, the ER doctor and best-selling author shared what it means to breakand to healon the frontlines of medicine. I will tell you, though, that the alternative comes at a much higher cost because I feel that in that case, for example, it was an intuition. I mean, mainly we get that to make sure there's no infection causing the fever. Tell us what happened. So they're coming in just for a medical screening exam. You're constantly questioned, and it's not by just your colleagues. So, you know, initially, he comes in, standing - we're all standing - shackled hands and legs. He said it wasn't true. Appointments: 1-512-324-7256. But she wasn't waking up, so I knew I was going to have to transfer her anyway. Because she's yelling for help." And I'm not sure what the question here is. DAVIES: You know, I'm wondering if the fact that you spent so much of your childhood in a place where you didn't feel safe and there was no adult or professional that you encountered who could relieve that, who could rescue you, who could make you safe, do you think that that in some way made you a more empathetic doctor, somebody who is more inclined to find that person who is in need of help that they somehow can't quite identify or ask for? Do you know what I mean? DAVIES: Dr. Michele Harper is an emergency room physician. "Medicine is fraught with racism," Harper said by phone. The end of her marriage brought the beginning of her self-healing. Her Patients, https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/07/books/the-beauty-in-breaking-michele-harper.html. All the stuff I used to do for self-care yoga, meditation, eating healthy Ive had to double down and increase clarity about my boundaries, she says. And I should just note again for listeners that there's some content here that might be disturbing. Nobody in the department did anything for her or me. Share this page on Facebook. She remained stuporous. We may have to chemically restrain him, give him medicine to somehow sedate him. Get out. As for sex, about 35.8% were female.]. And it felt dangerous. A teenage Harper had newly received her learners permit when she drove her brother, bleeding from a bite wound inflicted by their father during a fight, to the ER. ISBN-13: 9780525537380. One of the gifts of her literary journey, she says, are the conversations she is having across the country and around the world about healthcare. But I just left it. And the consensus in the ER at the time was, well, of course, that is what we're supposed to do. Talk about that a little. I am famously bad at social media. Her memoir is "The Beauty In Breaking." But it was a byproduct. I asked her if there was anything we at the hospital could do, after I made sure she wasn't in physical danger and wasn't going to kill herself. Know My Name, by Chanel Miller. Like any workplace, medicine has a hierarchy but people of color and women are usually undermined. DAVIES: Right. She was a Black patient. But the shortages remain. This is FRESH AIR. And so it was a long conversation about her experiences because for me in that moment, I - and why I stayed was it was important for me to hear her. Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information, I read books from across the U.S. to understand our divided nation. Dr. Harper received her BA in Psychology from Harvard University . But there has to be that agreement and understanding or nothing will be done about it. They stayed together through medical school until two months before she was scheduled to join the staff of a hospital in central Philadelphia, when he told . She spent more than a decade as an emergency room physician. No. Later, I learned they hired a white male nurse instead. As a Black woman, I navigate an American landscape that claims to be postracial when every waking moment reveals the contrary, Michele Harper writes. Dell Med Directory Bio: Lorie M. Harper, MD. Sign up on Eventbrite. In that way, it can make it easier to move on because it's hard work. While Harper says shes superstitious about sharing the topic of her next book so early in the process, she is yearning to continue writing. HARPER: Yes, 100%. There are so many powerful beats youll want to underline. The curtain was closed. I subsequently left the hospital. Michele Harper is a female, African American emergency room physician in a profession that is overwhelmingly male and white. And as a result, it did expedite the care that she needed. HARPER: First of all, shout out to Lincoln and Lincoln residency because that was one of - professionally, that was one of the most rewarding times of my education and career. In one chapter, she advocates for a Black man who has been brought in in handcuffs by white police officers and refuses an examination a constitutional right that Harper honors despite a co-worker calling a representative from the hospitals ethics office to report her. THE BEAUTY IN BREAKING (Riverhead, 280 pp., $27) is the riveting, heartbreaking, sometimes difficult, always inspiring story of how she made this happen. Copyright 2020 NPR. And if they could do that, if they could do an act that savage, then they are - the message that I took from that is that they are capable of anything. You know, the dynamics are interesting there. I mean, she said that she had been through a lot. Racism affects everything with my work as a doctor. So I did ask, and she told me what she had been through in the military was her supervisor and then her colleague raping her. And so that has allowed us to keep having masks. A graduate of Harvard University and the Renaissance School of Medicine at Stony Brook University, she has served as chief resident at Lincoln Hospital in the South Bronx and in the emergency department at the Veterans Affairs Medical Center in Philadelphia. All rights reserved. There wasn't a doctor assigned yet to her, she only had a nurse. The officers said we were to do it anyway. Eventually she said, I come here all the time and you're the only problem. I'm also the only Black doctor she's seen, per her chart. HARPER: There are times and it's really difficult because we want to know. Nope - not at all because different would mean structural change. Washington University School of Medicine, MSCI. He is affiliated with medical facilities Baptist Health Floyd and Clark Memorial Health. It involves a 22-month-old baby who was brought in who apparently had had a seizure. It's your patients. But Im trying to figure out how to detonate my life to restructure and find the time to write the next book.. When Breath Becomes Air, by Paul Kalanithi. It's not an issue. Recorded in Miami and Philadelphia. Read an excerpt from chapter 1: With the final DC home, house number three, we had arrived on the "Gold Coast.". And they were summoned, probably, a couple of times. She looked well, just stuporous. The Beauty in Breaking: A Memoir. (An emergency room is a great equalizer, but only to an extent.) True or false: We ignore the inconvenient problem because it doesnt have a rapidly accessible answer. How does this apply to the world outside an emergency room? So what was different about Dominic was that he's dark-skinned, he's Black and that he was with the police. And eventually you call it. Recorded in Miami [] The pair married in Hawaii on December 10, 1992. HARPER: Oh, yeah, all the time. And so we're all just bracing to see what happens this fall. Join us for an enlightening discussion with Dr. Michele Harper as she highlights the lessons learned on her inspiring personal journey of discovery and . Our hours have been cut, our pay has been cut because healthcare in America is a for-profit system. And then I got a call from the radiologist that while there was no pneumonia, she had several broken ribs, different stages of healing, so they happened at different times. The emergency room is a place of intensitya place of noise and colors and human drama. I drove a cab in Philly in the late '70s, and some of the most depressing fares I had were people going to the VA hospital and people being picked up at the VA hospital. So I replied, "Well, do you want to check? NPR transcripts are created on a rush deadline by an NPR contractor. Thats why we need to address racism in medicine. She was rushed into the department unconscious, not clear why but assuming a febrile seizure, a seizure that children - young children can have when they have a fever. MICHELE HARPER: (Reading) I am the doctor whose palms bolster the head of the 20-year-old man with a gunshot wound to his brain. Brought up in Washington, D.C., in a complicated family, she went to Harvard, where she met her husband. Welcome to Group Text, a monthly column for readers and book clubs about the novels, memoirs and short-story collections that make you want to talk, ask questions, and dwell in another world for a little bit longer. So in trying to cope and trying to figure out what to do, she started drinking, and that's why we're seeing her getting sober. In a recent interview with NPR, Dr. Michele Harper discussed her impetus for becoming an emergency room doctor: " . Just as Harper would never show up to examine a patient without her stethoscope, the reader should not open this book without a pen in hand. TV doctor Dawn Harper has split from her husband of 20 years Graham Isaac. But I was really concerned that this child had been beaten and was having traumatic brain injury and that's why she wasn't waking up. You want to just tell us about this interaction? She really didn't know anything about medicine. Clinically, all along the way - I prefer clinically to work in environments that are lower-resourced financially, immigrant, underrepresented people of color. They have no role in a febrile seizure. I continued, "So her complaint is not valid. Somebody who is of sound mind and medically competent is allowed to make their own decisions, whether or not we agree with them, because we have to respect patient autonomy and patient wishes. If the patient doesn't want the evaluation, we do it anyway. They stayed together through medical school until two months before she was scheduled to join the staff of a hospital in central Philadelphia, when he told her he couldn . Emergency room doctor Michele Harper brings her memoir, The Beauty in Breaking, to the L.A. Times Book Club June 29. Harper shares her poignant stories from the ER with Mitchell Kaplan. Dr. Harper is affiliated with Baylor Scott & White Medical Center Centennial. And your mother eventually remarried. Its a blessing, a good problem to have. Some salient memories that just remind me of the insecurity of it - there would always be some kind of physical violence. DAVIES: Yeah. Her book, The Beauty in Breaking: A Memoir. Photo courtesy of Penguin Random House. She was saying, "Leave. Dr. Harper is one of the mere 2% of Black women doctors working in America and she's on the front lines, as an Emergency Room doctor. You want to just describe what happened here? DAVIES: Michele Harper, thank you so much for speaking with us. D.C., in an abusive family, she went to Harvard, where she met her husband. Is that how it should be? NPR's Scott Simon speaks to Dr. Michele Harper about her new memoir, The Beauty in Breaking. She's an emergency medicine physician. Her behavior was out of line.". It's 11 a.m., and Michele Harper has just come off working a string of three late shifts at an emergency room in Trenton, N.J. Brought up in Washington, DC, in an abusive family, she went to Harvard, where she met her husband. And it was a devastating moment because it just felt that there was no way out and that we - we identified with my brother as being our protector - were now all being blamed for the violence. Harper looks each one in the eye. I mean, of course, if they're admitted to the hospital, we can - we usually get follow-up. So he would - when he was big enough, he would intervene and try and protect my mother. The following review first appeared in The DO magazine. Each milestone came with challenges: Harpers father tried to pass himself off as the wind beneath her wings at her medical school graduation, and her marriage to her college sweetheart fell apart at the end of her residency in the South Bronx. They are allowed to, you know, when certain criteria are met. This is FRESH AIR. And just to speak to this example, I was going for a promotion, a hospital position, going to remain full-time clinical staff in the ER but also have an administrative position in the hospital. He graduated from UNIVERSITY OF LOUISVILLE in 1995. I mean, I feel that that is their mission. Dr. Michele Harper is an emergency medicine physician. I mean, there was the mask on your face. Learn More. So it was always punctuated by violence. The Beauty In Breaking is a memoir of her work as an emergency room physician in some of the . I had nothing objective to go on. Original release. And usually, it's safe. My ER director said that she complained. For example, I had a patient who, when I walked into the room and introduced myself, cut me off and said, "Okay, yeah, well, this is what you're going to do for me today." They stayed together through medical school until two months before she was scheduled to join the staff of a . Everything seemed to add up. . In her new memoir, she shares some memorable stories of emergency medicine - being punched in the face by a young man she was examining, helping a woman in a VA hospital with the trauma of sexual assault she suffered serving in Afghanistan and treating a man for a cut on his hand who turned out to have incurred the wound while stabbing a woman to death. I said, "What is going on?" Whether you have read The Beauty in Breaking or not there are important lessons in self-healing to take . When we do experience racism, they often don't get it and may even hold us accountable for it. It was important for me to see her. Dr. Emily and her family moved to Virginia around June 2019. "You can't pour from an empty cup.". Michele Harper is a female, African American emergency room physician in a profession that is overwhelmingly male and white. But the hospital, if I had not intervened, would have been complicit. DAVIES: Eventually, your father did leave the family. And my staff - I was working with a resident at the time who didn't understand. And I told the police that not only was that request unethical and unprofessional, it's also illegal. As she puts it, In life, too, even greater brilliance can be found after the mending., Who Saves an Emergency Room Doctor? We're speaking with Dr. Michele Harper. She says writing became not only a salve to dramatic life changes but a means of healing from the journey that led her to pursue emergency medicine as a career. I asked her nurse. They stayed . About Elise Michelle Harper MD. The authoritative record of NPRs programming is the audio record. The Beauty in Breaking tells the story of Dr. Harper, a female, African American, ER physician in an overwhelmingly male and white profession. The end of her marriage brought the beginning of her self-healing. Michele Harper is a female, African American emergency room physician in a profession that is overwhelmingly male and white. HARPER: So she was there for medical clearance. But your childhood was not easy. Sep 28. This will be a lifetime work, though. Weve all seen the signs that say Thank You Health Care Heroes. How does Harpers memoir change how you think of those words? I could wrap this up in 10 minutes, and then I could go home. And that gave you some level of reassurance, I guess. Education. Penguin Publishing. And also because of the pain I saw and felt in my home, it was also important for me to be of service and help to other people so that they could find their own liberation as well. Is it different? Dr. Michelle Harper, a New York Times Bestselling Author and Harvard graduate, will be the focus of a Monday, August 22 virtual interview with East Baton Rouge Parish (EBR) readers, and EBR . I ran to the room. But, and perhaps most critically, people have to be held accountable when it comes to racism. DAVIES: I don't want to dwell on this too much. HARPER: Yeah. And so when I was ordering her tests, I didn't need to order liver function tests. While she waited for John, she took in the scene in the emergency room: an old man napping, a young man waiting for a ride home, a father rushing through sliding doors with his little girl in his arms. So he left the department. The Beauty in Breaking is a journey of a thousand judgment calls, including some lighter moments. Emergency room physician, Michele Harper, grew up in a complicated family. My trainee, the resident, was white. And I didn't get the job. That's an important point. Make an appointment by calling (302)644-8880. Sometimes our supervisors dont understand. Dr. Michele Harper sheds light on how the coronavirus pandemic has affected health care workers and the virus's impact on vulnerable populations, and discuss. A graduate of . Michelle Harper's age is 44. By The Literary Life. She has a new memoir about her experiences in the emergency room and how they've helped her grow personally. I was horrified. And it's a long, agonizing process, you know, administering drugs, doing the pumping. Studies show that these doctors tend to be more empathetic to their patients. Theres a newborn who isnt breathing; a repeat visitor whose chart includes a violent behavior alert; a veteran who opens up about what shes survived; an older man who receives a grim diagnosis with grace and humor. And I remember one time when he was protecting my mother - and so I ended up fighting with my father - how my father, when my brother had him pinned to the ground, bit my brother's thumb. That's depleting, and it's also rewarding to be of service. Washington University School of Medicine, MD. Apparently, Dr. Michele Sharkey has found love with none other than the brother of a fellow coworker, Dr. Emily Thomas. Dr. Michele Harper is a New Jersey-based emergency room physician whose memoir, The Beauty in Breaking, is available now. I'm always more appreciated in the community and even within hospital systems. I don't know if the allegations against him were true. So we reuse it over and over again. The past few nights shes treated heart and kidney failure, psychosis, depression, homelessness, physical assault and a complicated arm laceration in which a patient punched a window and the glass won. Emily and Dr. Harper discuss the back stories that become salient in caring for patients who may be suffering from more than just the injuries . . She received a Bachelor of Science at Bowling Green State University and a Masters of Human Science and Doctorate from National College of Chiropractic. It's called "The Beauty In Breaking." Our mission is to get Southern California reading and talking. Whats more important is to be happy, to give myself permission to live with integrity so that I am committed to loving myself, and in showing that example it gives others permission to do the same.. Often, a medical work environment can be traumatic for people (and specifically women) of color. Brought up in Washington, D.C., in a complicated family, she attended Harvard, where she met her husband. Her physical exam was fine. . DAVIES: You described in the piece that you wrote about the mask that you wore over your face. Dr. Michele B. Harper is an emergency medicine physician in Fort Washington, Maryland. And he apologized because he said that unfortunately, this is what always happens in this hospital - that the hospital won't promote women or people of color. Whats interesting and tragic is that a lot of us are feeling demoralized, Harper says. Despite her rigorous schedule, Dr. Michelle enjoys spending time with her family. And it was impetus for me to act because it's one thing to realize. June 11, 2021 10:14 AM PT. . She writes that she's grown emotionally and learned from her patients as she struggled to overcome pain in her own life, growing up with an abusive father and coping with the breakup of her marriage. And my brother, who was older than me by about 8 1/2 years - he's older than me. This Week on The Literary Life Podcast. No. Her memoir is "The Beauty In Breaking." Coming up, Maureen Corrigan reviews "Mexican Gothic," a horror story she says is a ghastly treat . So the police just left. Dr. Michele Harper, THE BEAUTY IN BREAKING. In that sameness is our common entitlement to respect, our human entitlement to love.. Because if the person caring for you is someone who hears you, who truly understands you thats priceless. You grew up in an affluent family in what you describe as some exclusive neighborhoods in Washington, D.C. You went to private school. Her story is increasingly relevant as the aftermath of the pandemic continues to profoundly affect the medical community. MICHELE HARPER: I'm - I feel healthy and fine. Now, of course, there are choices. Weve bought into a collective delusion that healthcare is a privilege and not a right. Join us for an enlightening discussion with Dr. Michele Harper as she highlights the lessons learned on her inspiring personal journey of discovery and self-reflection as written in her New York Times Best Selling memoir, The Beauty in Breaking. But Harper isn't just telling war stories in her book. The other part of me was pissed off that she felt so entitled to behave so indecently. Its 11 a.m., and Michele Harper has just come off working a string of three late shifts at an emergency room in Trenton, N.J. Los Angeles. Their specialties include Obstetrics & Gynecology. Everyone just sat there. Of the doctors and nurses on duty, I was the only Black person. They stayed together through medical school until two months before she was scheduled to join the staff of a hospital in . What she ultimately said to me after our conversation was, I just wanted to talk and now, after meeting with you, I feel better. She felt well enough to continue living. Michele Harper is a female, African American emergency room physician in a profession that is overwhelmingly male and white. You did. All of those heroes trying to recover from the trauma of the pandemic are trying to figure out how to live and how to survive.. Well, as the results came back one by one, they were elevated. We want to know if the patient's OK, if they made it. This man has personal sovereignty. I was the one to take a stand, to see if she was okay and to ask him to leave the room because she didn't feel safe, and she wasn't under arrest. Michele Harper has worked as an emergency room physician for more than a decade at various institutions, including as chief resident at Lincoln Hospital in the South Bronx and in the emergency department at the Veterans Affairs Medical Center in Philadelphia. If you or someone you know is considering suicide, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), text "STRENGTH" to the Crisis Text Line at 741-741 or go to suicidepreventionlifeline.org. HARPER: It does. Well, she wasn't coming to, which can happen. You want to describe some of the family dynamics that made it hard? Its been an interesting learning curve, Im quicker on the uptake about choosing who gets my energy. The patient, medically, was fine. It was crying out for help, and the liver test was kind of an intuition on your part. Did you feel more appreciated in the Bronx? Harper tells her story through the lives of people she encounters on stretchers and gurneys patients who are scared, vulnerable, confused and sometimes impatient to the point of rage. Visit our website terms of use and permissions pages at www.npr.org for further information. Her physical exam was fine. 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